Relationships with lovers and past lovers are one of the most difficult issues to deal with in our 3D life. It is one of the topics that I am asked most to discuss, channel and do questions and answer sessions about. It is a topic always deep in our mind for both genders.
Some people seem to blame themselves for unsuccessful relationships, in particular with someone that may have been perceived as being the twin flame or an important soul mate. Others are feeling lonely, hopeless for never finding someone to go out with, while others again seem to hang on to a relationship not being certain whether it is the right decision to make or not.
I think that it is important at this point for many of us to take our own responsibilities and discuss matters with the partner, or to reveal your feelings to the person that you like if you are being sincere about it and if you feel that the other person can be trusted.
It is also very important to realize that one has to let go of expectations, of possessing the other person, whether this person is a soul mate, a spouse, or your twin flame.
Many people are under the dreamy illusion that when one meets the twin flame all will be just rosy and perfect. However, one has to bear in mind that many of us have unfinished business with another partner, or karma to settle with another being, or may be married and have a family.
It is important to allow the twin flame to live his or her life such as his or her life plan is meant to be. Let go of any selfish feelings, because if you decide to interfere in the twin flame life, before his or her karma is settled with someone else, you may end up creating a much more difficult situation for everybody.
Don’t spend your life hoping, dreaming, or waiting for the person that you think may be your twin flame to be free and come to you. This may never take place in this dimension, and most likely will not. When in 3D, twin flames come from totally opposite angles, so understanding of one another would be very challenging. There would be much resentment for being in a relationship with someone else also. It is likely that you will be faced with your own limitations when in presence of you twin. Your twin is here to challenge every aspect of your life, to help you question and discover who you are, and your true purpose for this life.
If people unite with the twin flame before their separate mission is done, the life mission and learning experiences may never be learnt, as many couples will just fall into the comfort of each other’s love and considering that they have achieved the most difficult goal for their life and will go on and end their search.
Those among us, knowing that someone is their twin flame, will have to behave with a huge amount of love, grace and generosity. Let go of all memories, desires, longings, hopes for now, don’t expect anything at all. The only thing you can do is to keep your love for that person in your heart, for your hearts are connected, and the other will eventually know.
Much love to everybody out there feeling this pressure now.
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